Relationships: a two-way thing
music 被動 [蘇慧倫/失戀萬歲]
Just had the sudden urge of hearing Tracy Su's "Passive". [蘇慧倫-被動] I know it's a very very ancient song, but when I heard it over the radio not long ago, it reminded me of last year's trip to taiwan 溪頭, where a karaoke session was held among us LEPers. Someone sang that song.
Haha, the songs offered back then were so outdated that we had no choice but to choose those that we "subconsciously" knew of, based on our impression.
I remembered shocking others by singing that ulu song, 羅大佑's 野百合也有春天. Was also amazed that some were actually aware of the oldies' song titles, which were more frequently played on FM Capital 95.8.
Ok, back to Tracy Su's "Passive". The lyrics portray the firm and strong personality that the protagonist possesses.
She displays an attitude and shows that she holds her own opinions by saying "我可以很久不和你聯絡", "我可以學會對你很冷漠"; yet she is also a "little woman" [小女人] who is dedicated to a person she likes- "為何學不會將愛沒收", "這些年始終沒有對你說".
However she is very clear where the problem lies- "只因你的愛居無定所", so she decides not to waste her precious time anymore- "只因我的愛不在為你揮霍".
Hmm, a girl who's got a clear mind when it comes to relationships. She can be constant in love relationship with someone who reciprocates her good intentions, but when he doesn't, she decides he is not worth her love and therefore leaves him.
Yes, when one's kindness are being neglected, it is very discouraging.
Anyway, relationships are a two-way thing. There's nothing to be despondent about upon break-ups, especially when the other half doesn't show any regard to what you're doing for him or her.
Have some pride and principle when it comes to relationships! Perhaps it's your other half who's suffering the loss of a great partner like you?
Introducing this song which has a healing effect, <被動>.
<被動> - 蘇慧倫 詞/ 潘麗玉 曲/ 伍佰
我可以很久不和你聯絡
任日子一天天這麼過
讓自己忙碌可以當作借口
逃避想念你的種種軟弱
我可以學會對你很冷漠
為何學不會將愛沒收
面對你是對我最大的折磨
這些年始終沒有對你說
愛你越久我越被動 只因你的愛居無定所
是你讓我的心慢慢退縮退到你看不見的角落
愛你越久我越被動 只因我的愛不在為你揮霍
是我讓我的心失去自由卻再也沒有勇氣放縱
Just had the sudden urge of hearing Tracy Su's "Passive". [蘇慧倫-被動] I know it's a very very ancient song, but when I heard it over the radio not long ago, it reminded me of last year's trip to taiwan 溪頭, where a karaoke session was held among us LEPers. Someone sang that song.
Haha, the songs offered back then were so outdated that we had no choice but to choose those that we "subconsciously" knew of, based on our impression.
I remembered shocking others by singing that ulu song, 羅大佑's 野百合也有春天. Was also amazed that some were actually aware of the oldies' song titles, which were more frequently played on FM Capital 95.8.
Ok, back to Tracy Su's "Passive". The lyrics portray the firm and strong personality that the protagonist possesses.
She displays an attitude and shows that she holds her own opinions by saying "我可以很久不和你聯絡", "我可以學會對你很冷漠"; yet she is also a "little woman" [小女人] who is dedicated to a person she likes- "為何學不會將愛沒收", "這些年始終沒有對你說".
However she is very clear where the problem lies- "只因你的愛居無定所", so she decides not to waste her precious time anymore- "只因我的愛不在為你揮霍".
Hmm, a girl who's got a clear mind when it comes to relationships. She can be constant in love relationship with someone who reciprocates her good intentions, but when he doesn't, she decides he is not worth her love and therefore leaves him.
Yes, when one's kindness are being neglected, it is very discouraging.
Anyway, relationships are a two-way thing. There's nothing to be despondent about upon break-ups, especially when the other half doesn't show any regard to what you're doing for him or her.
Have some pride and principle when it comes to relationships! Perhaps it's your other half who's suffering the loss of a great partner like you?
Introducing this song which has a healing effect, <被動>.
<被動> - 蘇慧倫 詞/ 潘麗玉 曲/ 伍佰
我可以很久不和你聯絡
任日子一天天這麼過
讓自己忙碌可以當作借口
逃避想念你的種種軟弱
我可以學會對你很冷漠
為何學不會將愛沒收
面對你是對我最大的折磨
這些年始終沒有對你說
愛你越久我越被動 只因你的愛居無定所
是你讓我的心慢慢退縮退到你看不見的角落
愛你越久我越被動 只因我的愛不在為你揮霍
是我讓我的心失去自由卻再也沒有勇氣放縱
posted by Joy @ 12:52 AM
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